Category Archives: Social Issues

Silencer of the heart



Today I was out of town visiting my sister who lived in an apartment complex on the lake. Earlier that evening, after a great time with my young son and my 3 yr old nephew, we walked up the stairs I enjoyed the peace and quiet as I watched the [...]

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Facebook Deactivate



Facebook. Facebook. Facebook. Facebook. Yes, I said it, Facebook. Annoying to hear it said repeatedly? Well, just think of the fact that’s what screaming in your head all the million times you log in. Yes, some are not THAT bad, but some are WORSE. We might as well pay rent [...]

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Gay, Straight, Bisexual but Only One


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EDITOR’S NOTE:  Our next reader is spot on with our views here at STD on sexuality.  Gay, straight or bisexual, you’re human and we accept you.  To each their own and the lifestyle they choose.  Your sexuality doesn’t determine how you should be treated.  If I’m going to be rude, I’ll be [...]

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Love til Aircraft Death Do Us Part


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EDITOR’S NOTE:  No one thinks of dying or death when they think of love.  But for some, it’s a reality.  This reader grew up with an appreciation of the military as her father served while she was a child.  But, read on as she contemplates death and dying as she [...]

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Rebound Marine



EDITOR’S NOTE: Sooner or later, all our relationships come to an end. There comes the inevitable rebound for some, alone time, or eventually, new, better relationships. It can happen fast, it may be a while, but if the opportunity comes up, you gotta make it count. And for this reader, [...]

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Military Wife Prep


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EDITOR’S NOTE:  Sometimes things aren’t always as they seem.  Sometimes there are guys that are not typical guys that don’t have ‘typical’ behavior.  See how this military guy handles his current love interest.   I’m in utter confusion and this is not typical for me.  I am OCD.  Everything has [...]

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Family Tradition



EDITOR’S NOTE: We are all about having a good time. Going out in the night life and having drinks with friends can be a good time but there are times when it gets out of hand. It’s important to know how to address a problem when a night of drinking [...]

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Pimping Deadlines



QUESTION: I am so fed up with dating.  I broke up with an abusive boyfriend of 5 years last year.  And I have been on a rampage.  I haven’t really been looking for anything in particular, but all I have is bad luck.  All I seem to find is guys [...]

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Baby Daddy or Husband



EDITOR’S NOTE: Many couples like to enjoy themselves every now and then with physical intimacy.  It is the highest expression of your desire for another person.  But what happens when the unplanned happens and you have to face the consequences after?  Read on. QUESTION: I’ve been dating this guy for [...]

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Raped Overseas



QUESTION: I am an American who is living overseas for a new experience. A guy friend came over last night and basically raped me. I know it sounds horrible and I feel horrible. I was in the police station all night here. He pushed me down on my stomach and [...]

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Bipolar Love



QUESTION: First off, I am an individual who has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I was misdiagnosed for a long time and had a toxic relationship I was part of the entire time until I got diagnosed correctly. Then I was able to get on the right meds and I [...]

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Past is the Past


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QUESTION: I’ve been dating this girl for 3 months and she’s wonderful in every way. She’s a really strong Christian, a great mom to her 2 teenagers, loyal to me, kind to everyone, beautiful but simple, and very family oriented. I really do think she could be the one. So, [...]

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Meth in my Life


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QUESTION: I was dating a guy for 3 years and he was using steroids for over a year while we were together and I didn’t know. One night after I got upset after seeing a text from a girl he used to talk to, he went into a rage. He [...]

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911


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QUESTION: My girlfriend and I and our daughter just came back from NYC and it was a nightmare. I’m exhausted because I had to spend the last 3 days trying to get her get out of the psych ER there, not to mention it was worse since it fell around [...]

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Raped


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http://youtu.be/pojL_35QlSI Q: Five months ago, I received one of the most disturbing and intense calls from a girl I had dated for 6 months. From the sound of her voice, I knew something was up. She was generally a happy person and to hear her nervous and in disarray was [...]

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Imploding Firework


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Q: I have been with this guy for 5 years now and would do anything for him. I’ve even taken him back after he cheated twice. But now that I’ve told him I’ve had enough of his neglect and lack of love that I’m leaving him to move back to [...]

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Taking the Life Out of Me


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Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years now and we are now, unexpectedly 6 months pregnant. Last week, the most unbelievable and heart wrenching thing happened. I’m so embarassed and ashamed to say this. I’m a very accomplished pediatrician and have always considered myself to be smart, [...]

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