Monthly Archives: September 2011

Giving It All Away


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Q: I’m so in love with the girl I’ve been dating the last 5 years, but I don’t know if I can take it anymore. I would do and have done anything for her. We’ve had a yo-yo relationship the last couple years since the day I messed up and [...]

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Creating Life in Destruction


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Q: My girlfriend is psycho and is getting on my case. Well, actually technically we’re on a break but we do still mess around. I do love her though. Four months ago when we started living together, we found out a month later she was pregnant and we had only [...]

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Divorcing the Dog


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  Q: I was working with this beautiful, smart, funny, and exciting girl. We’re on the same project at work and I had interviewed her before she ever started working with us. I was captivated by her at our first meeting, I was the one who was going to give [...]

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East Crashes With the West


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Q: A few years ago when my ex-boyfriend and I were on a break, I met a really great Muslim guy. I’m a pretty strong Baptist girl, I was raised in the south, but we hit it off. We were attracted to each other and he was even okay with [...]

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Straight Laced And Not Taking Chances


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Q: A childhood girlfriend of mine that I’ve been in love with forever recently introduced me to her strong Catholic girlfriend who lives in Georgia. I live in Washington State, but I thought I’d give it a chance and I had nothing to lose. I was a devout Catholic, so [...]

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Dating while asleep


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Q: I met a guy last week while we were out and we danced the night away. I was feeling the vibe and he was attractive and cute. My friends and I decided to grab a bite to eat, and he came along. He definitely was interested just by his [...]

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Running Away From a Romantic Getaway


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Q: Recently, a month ago, an old crush and I got back in touch via FB. He and I had dated for a couple weeks several years ago at college when I still lived in Mississippi. Now that I was in Charleston, one of the first things he said when [...]

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Slow Your Roll


needy

Q: I recently connected with an old group of friends. There was a new girl I befriended several months ago that I was attracted to, but I wasn’t ready to get into a new relationship or any serious dating. I’m not a forward guy, so I didn’t pursue her and [...]

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Breadeater


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http://youtu.be/AVi4PUx8bXk   Q: I’ve been dating a beautiful, sexy, fun loving, sweet, charming, smart young lady for about 6 months now. She’s a college grad and has a 6 figure job as a sales manager in the area. She’s one of the most exciting women I have met, especially compared [...]

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Imploding Firework


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Q: I have been with this guy for 5 years now and would do anything for him. I’ve even taken him back after he cheated twice. But now that I’ve told him I’ve had enough of his neglect and lack of love that I’m leaving him to move back to [...]

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Potpourri Freshens Your Life


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Q: This weekend I met an interesting, cute, sweet girl in New Orleans on Bourbon St. Yes, I know, the street is filthy, who should expect much more to find relationship material. I saw her in the bar and actually grabbed her to get her to dance with my friend, [...]

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Up, Down, Left, Right, and All Around


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Q: I met a really great guy, but I cannot figure him out or what I should do. We met about 6 weeks ago at a local bar and we hit it off from the get go. We laughed, joked, and talked about our interests. He asked me to ‘stay [...]

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Crashed and Burned While Flying High


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Q:  I want to start off by clarifying that I’m a not a bad guy despite what may come to people’s mind when I say that I’m a casanova.  I’m honest with all the women I get involved with and they know I’m intimate with other people.  I travel a [...]

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Jumping Ship On The Shoreline


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Q:  My girlfriend and I have been apart now for 5 months while she’s out to sea.  She’s in the Navy and this is her longest deployment since we’ve been together for the last 2 years.  I just graduated from college and moved back home for the summer.  I’ve been [...]

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Shredding it


chicago cubs

Q: I have been with my fiancee for 10 yrs now and we have 2 kids together. Most of the time we get along great, but when we fight it gets crazy. Or I should say, I get crazy. Recently, we got into a fight, he walked away without a [...]

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Smelly Roses


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Q:  I recently started talking to a girl friend that hangs out with my group of friends.  She and I went out on a few dates, she seems to be a smart girl, can hold decent conversations and is really attractive.  She seems to be really into me.  We play [...]

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Taking the Life Out of Me


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Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years now and we are now, unexpectedly 6 months pregnant. Last week, the most unbelievable and heart wrenching thing happened. I’m so embarassed and ashamed to say this. I’m a very accomplished pediatrician and have always considered myself to be smart, [...]

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Rain Rain, Should the Relationship Go Away


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Q: It’s my wedding day!! I am marrying the man of my dreams that I’ve been with for the last 10 yrs! We have been through everything–family drama, many fights, jealousy, living together, and planning our wedding. He’s been by my side time and time again after I’ve cheated, almost [...]

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Man Up or Man Down


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QUESTION:   I‘m a well accomplished young woman with my career and life together and I’ve been dating this guy for the last few months.  He’s very sweet and fun, but I’m not sure there’s much more than that and I’m not sure whether to continue things with him.  He doesn’t [...]

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The Server


indecisive guy

Q:  I recently got out of a long term relationship with a girl whom I would’ve done anything for, but she wasn’t ready to get married.  I was crushed, but I forced myself to get out and meet new people, hang out with old friends and just enjoy life.  I [...]

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Ms. Saints Or Not


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Q: Last year while spending the summer back home, my mom introduced me to a trainer who worked at her gym and she raved about how she (Ms Saints–she was crazy about the football team) was so great–took care of her ill single mom, played violin, and was slender, beautiful [...]

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Let It Ride or Get Off The Ride


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Q:  I went on a trip to Atlanta with my friends and met a great guy in the bar (rare, I know, but it’s true), I call him ‘Sweet V’.  We hit it off and for the first time in my 35ish yr old life, I went home with a [...]

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The First Date


hot dog

Q:  I’m currently dating a guy and he’s in the Army and will be stationed somewhere else next week.  But I met a guy who works at a hot dog stand and he wants to take me out on a day trip to a nearby beach.  I’ve never dated 2 [...]

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