Monthly Archives: October 2011

Dating World Series (Part III)


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Anúncio OnlineHotel Special multiple series posts, original part I can be found at: http://smalltowndating.wordpress.com/2011/10/29/dating-world-series-part-i/   Part II can be found at:  :  http://smalltowndating.wordpress.com/2011/10/29/dating-world-series-part-ii/ QUESTION: Yeah, me again, yes me for the 3rd time! I’m clueless and confused. I should just hire you as my own personal ‘Hitch’. I know I didn’t [...]

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Dating World Series (Part II)


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Anúncio OnlineHotel Special multiple series posts, original part I can be found at:  http://smalltowndating.wordpress.com/2011/10/29/dating-world-series-part-i/ QUESTION: It’s me again, needing more help in the same guy situation with Navy school boy.  We continued text messaging back and forth each day, less than we did initially.  But, we still talk.  We finally [...]

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Dating World Series (Part I)


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QUESTION: I really thought I found something special this time, as special as the Rangers being in the World Series for the 2nd time in a row. My best friend and I were walking downtown to a bar to meet some friends when she saw a couple of Navy guys [...]

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Beach Bum Formal Wear


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Q: I have one of the sexiest, good looking guys ever. I mean, he is GQ model hot. He also happens to be a great guy, so I got really lucky! The only thing is that because he’s a professional surfer, he wears nothing but surfer wear. He has a [...]

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Polar opposites



Q: I’ve been dating this girl for 3 months now and things are going great. We workout together, volunteer together, and study together. We even pray together. And she’s also an energtic, fun, and sweet girl. I can talk to her about anything. I’ve been through some tough times with [...]

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Far flung


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Q: I had the greatest week of my life earlier this month. I live in Augusta, but I was in Atlanta for a week for work. A month earlier when I was in Charleston visiting some friends, I happened to meet this guy. He was a friend of a friend, [...]

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Text message date


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Q: This is total role reversal and I’m not sure what to do. I hang out at a local bar in town and I met a kick ass girl. She seemed cool enough to chill and get to know, so we exchanged phone numbers. We never really hung out after [...]

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Sometimes blood is thinner than water


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Q: A few days ago, my brother and I were at a pool hall visiting some friends when we met this new girl. She was new to the area and had just moved here. She was a very confident, exciting, and energetic person. You couldn’t help but feel happy around [...]

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Name calling


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Q: Omg, I made the biggest mistake making out with my girlfriend’s friend at the club last week. I don’t know what got a hold of me. The guy was not my type at all and we didn’t even talk all night til we got on the dance floor and [...]

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Being a friend


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Q: My boyfriend and I hang out with another couple, his best friend and my good girl ‘friend’, whom we set up together. She claims that we’re really good friends and she loves me, but lately I’m starting to doubt that. I really question what her intentions are. One day [...]

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Picking up on mommy


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Q: I recently met this hot guy at a local restaurant while I was out on a girl’s night out dinner. I don’t usually meet guys in random scenarios like that, but he seemed nice enough. So when he asked for my number, I willingly gave it. I had just [...]

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Math that doesn’t add up


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Q: One of my good guy friends really wants me to introduce him and hook him up with one of my girl friends from medical school. She’s a beautiful girl and a great catch. Likewise, he’s a great guy, loyal friend, and would treat her well. And just to set [...]

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Lost Treasures


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Q: With each passing day, I don’t know if I can do it anymore. I don’t know if I can live without my ex-girlfriend anymore. We’ve been together for the last six years, she’s stood by my side through everything, even when I was jobless and clueless on what to [...]

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Take me out to the ball game


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Q: I recently met a great girl that I’m really into. The only problem is that I work a lot and travel for work. I’ve been single for a year now almost and I told myself that I wouldn’t date because I’m too busy for work. We talk every other [...]

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Not feeling the need to be squeezed


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Q: Every man wants to have a woman to adore him and love him, but damn, I’m getting more than my share of ‘love’. I’ve been with this girl for 4 months. Everything was great up until last month when we started talking about getting married, and then all hell [...]

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Bombs Away


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Q: My family doesn’t like the guy I’m dating. We’ve been together for 5 years and the first 2 years they tolerated him. Initially they didn’t love him, but they didn’t give off the impression they wanted me to leave him. Now, I can tell anytime I bring up his [...]

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Spun in a Web


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Q: I’m in such a mess right now, I don’t even know where to begin. The girl I’ve been dating the last few years moved into my parent’s extra room. My parents are very understanding and giving, so they had no problem with it. I had moved to a new [...]

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Holding It Together


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Q: My ex and I have a 3 yr old and his dad decided to move back to his hometown to be with his family. A few months ago, he was awarded full custody and the ability to move anywhere in the US. So 2 months ago, he told me [...]

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Here’s Looking At You Pop Tart!


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Q: My friends and I go out to the club a lot but we’re pretty low key guys. We don’t really approach girls in the club, we’re just not very forward and aggressive. Of course, if a lady talks to us, we respond. We’re not standoffish at all. But girls [...]

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Raped


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http://youtu.be/pojL_35QlSI Q: Five months ago, I received one of the most disturbing and intense calls from a girl I had dated for 6 months. From the sound of her voice, I knew something was up. She was generally a happy person and to hear her nervous and in disarray was [...]

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Going Back In Time


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Q: I am an idiot. I made one of the worst mistakes leaving my son’s mother thinking that I could do better. We were having rough times when our son was young and fought all the time. I thought I was doing the right thing leaving her and dating other [...]

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Taking Chances


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Q: I’ve been single for about 6 months now, I left my ex of 3 years, we had gotten engaged. But, a couple months before, I decided that I wasn’t in love and that I still wanted to date around to see what was out there. I had been in [...]

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Alcohol Engagement


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Q: My girlfriend and I recently got engaged a month ago. We were having bad fights before we got engaged, but I still decided to propose. Both of our families were telling us not to do it. We had a tendency to ruin every party and occasion by having a [...]

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Not That Fish


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  Q: I am a member of plentyoffish.com, but I’ve never really gotten any hits that interested me. Well, I got 2 good matches and looking at the pictures, I went with the one that I thought was cuter. The one that I thought was cuter lived 45 minutes away, [...]

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Princesses, Cowboys, and Servants, Oh My!


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Q: Two months ago, my ex-girlfriend broke things off. We had only dated for two months, but we talked about getting married. We even started looking at dresses for her, went for ring fittings, looked at reception venues and churches. We told our close friends about our plans and started [...]

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Can’t Separate Bread and Butter


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Q: I was recently out with a group of friends at a local bar just having a few drinks and dancing, having fun. I occasionally meet girls at the bar every now and then, and it just so happened that night that I saw a really cute girl I wanted [...]

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